@wiscoaster
In my opinion you should buy a 1851 Colt replica first. Make sure it's the proper .36 caliber and not a .44 caliber. Learn the ins-outs of cap and ball with the 1851. And then branch out to other cap and ball revolvers.
Contrary to popular opinion, the Colt design is NOT weaker than the Remington design. Our resident cap and ball expert Mike at goonsguns otherwise known as
@45D would agree with me. Now Mike and I disagree on Pietta vs Uberti but non the less the Colt is not a weaker design than the Remington.
Colts do 'suck' more caps than Remingtons. I would agree that a bone stock Remington is more reliable than a comparable bone stock Colt. That said, Colts 'point' better than Remingtons.
You WILL end up with both AND appreciate both for their strengths and weaknesses. But I would buy a Pietta 1851 as my first cap and ball. Guess what? I have followed my own advice and now own 9 cap and ball revolvers after many years. Most are Colts designs, but some are Remingtons. I still prefer Pietta over Uberti, but won't turn down a good deal on a new or lnib Uberti.