The Ruger OA uses a .457 diameter lead roundball.
Any real black powder except 4F is recommended and any of the synthetic black powders will work as well.
Powder loads can be anywhere from 20 to 35 grains.
Just make sure the ball is rammed all the way down the chamber so it rests on the powder.
#11 percussion caps will work.
Some shooters add a fiber wad between the powder and the ball but IMO this isn't needed for just shooting. Some think this increases accuracy and helps to prevent "chain firing". (That's when more than one chamber fires).
Loading is the same as with any cap & ball revolver.
If the gun hasn't been fired in a long time it's a good idea to cap the nipples of the unloaded cylinder and then fire each cap.
This will blow any obstruction out of the small nipple hole.
Place the hammer at half cock so the cylinder rotates freely.
Pour a measured amount of powder into a chamber.
Place the ball into the chambers mouth. (It won't go all the way in).
Rotate the cylinder so the ball is under the loading lever ram.
Use the ram to force the ball into the chamber and down on top of the powder.
Repeat until the cylinder is loaded. (Some only load 5 chambers if the gun is not going to be fired immediately. They place the hammer on the empty chamber for safety while carrying the gun.)
If the gun is going to be shot immediately I see nothing wrong with loading all 6 chambers.
Once the chambers are loaded, many (including me) like to wipe some grease over the ball and chambers mouth. This can serve as a lubricant to lessen the chances of leading the barrels bore.
Once your ready, place a percussion cap on the nipple of each loaded chamber.
These must be a tight fit on the nipple because if one falls off when the gun is fired it opens up a path for the flames from the firing chamber to find its way into the uncapped chamber and fire it. This is the cause of most (if not all) chain firing.
Once the gun is loaded it's ready to shoot.
Treat it like it was a modern gun.
Some folks think black powder is weak so these guns are weak too. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Just because your frends gun is stainless doesn't mean it does not need to be cleaned.
The cylinder and barrel must be cleaned with water, dried and oiled. The powder fouling that lands on the outside of the frame needs to be cleaned off too.
Have fun.