Before you start bending the tang, make a cardboard template of the shape of the wrist of the stock and include a straight area that rests on the top of the barrel.
This will be a valuable tool for showing you exactly where the tang needs more bending.
With the breech plug installed into the barrel, I place the tang into my bench vise and then use the barrel as a lever to bend the tang.
I do not clamp the vise on the tang but, rather leave the jaws slightly open to allow me to move the tang up or down a bit to get the bending force in the place it is needed.
I haven't seen a need to thin the tang before bending and actually, I don't know if this is a good idea or not.
I say this because no matter how careful you are with the bending, it will never match the exact shape of the wrist when your done.
By leaving some extra thickness to the tang when it is cold bent, there will be plenty of material there so the final filing of the top to exactly match the wrist won't make it too thin.
One word of caution though.
Do NOT drill the tang hole before the tang is bent.
I know this sounds obvious but way back when, when I was starting to build these rifles I did just that. Of course, the tang bent at the drilled hole and then broke off. :cursing:
Live and learn as they say. :rotf: