NOrseman: Remember that in addition to filling the gap that exists between the ball and the bore diameter, which is land to land, you also have to have a patch thick enough to fill the grooves. The reason a .010" patch blows out for most of us is because it is not thick enough to fill the grooves, which often run from .006 to .008" deep. So, I have also been using .015 to .018" thick patching in my .50 cal. shooting the .490 ball.
If you want it to load easier, cone the muzzle with one of the tools that Joe Wood sells. The nice thing about coning, is that you only open the crown up to the groove diameter, so that the coning eases and centers the ball and patch onto the lands as its pushed down the barrel. That keeps most patches from being cut on sharp lands, and loads the fabric into the grooves from the start. The coning does not affect accuracy adversely. Target shooters decided to use a flat crowned muzzle and short starters, and even false muzzles to load their balls and conicals into the barrels for best accuracy. But, then, they did not have muzzle, or crown, protectors made out of delrin, back in those day, to help center the ramrod, and protect the crown from friction caused by the side of the ramrod being rubbed against it. Of course, if those old shooters took their time, and used a hand over hand technique to load those guns, instead of pushing the whole rod down in one stroke, or pulling it out in one stroke, there would have been no rubbing against the crown, either. We had the muzzle protectors made of brass, before the synthetic ones came out, but I don't know how common they were in the 19th century. I do know that Harry Pope, the famous barrel maker, promoted their use on his barrels when a false muzzle was not used.