Sounds like the frizzen does need to be hardened.
I don't know if TC frizzens are made of 1095 steel, or of low carbon mild steel. However,
I suggest using a reducing flame on an acetylene torch, played across the face of the frizzen until the frizzen loses magnetism. Be aware of the color, at that point, and keep the frizzen at a slightly brighter color for a coupla minutes. Quickly quench in light oil warmed to 130 degrees, transmission fluid works pretty well. I suggest using at least a half gallon of oil, to adequately wick the heat away from the part. More is better.
Clean the part of oil and scale and put it in the kitchen oven at 350 degrees for an hour. I suggest using the average reading between two oven thermometers to regulate the temp, since oven thermostats are notoriously inaccurate, sometimes varying as much as 100 degrees from the setting.
Once the part has cooled, polish the frizzen so that tempering colors will be apparent when the tail and toe are tempered to a full blue.
Slowly heat the end of the tail until the colors begin to run down the tail to the toe and across the pan cover. Once a straw color reaches the face of the frizzen, quench in warm water to stop the heat transfer. Clean 'er up and you are done.
If the frizzen is still soft, it will need case hardening. Repeat the instructions above, using Kasnite to cover the face of the frizzen for at least 15 minutes. Quench in warm water, then temper as above.
There was a good thread on hardening frizzens a coupla days ago. A search might turn up more information submitted by other folks who do this more often than I. I offered my way of hardening a frizzen, but there are as many ways to skin a cat, or harden a frizzen as there are people to do it, so check out some of the other threads on the subject.
God bless,
J.D.