Have not used it for a while, but when I do, I apply three or four drops to the patch, center the wet spot over the bore, place the ball on center and then start it. Then cut at muzzle. No reason you cannot pre wet precut patches.
I load without wiping between shots. The wet patch wipes as you load. Any of the wet lubes can be used the same way.
For hunting I use a grease type lube.