I believe that the brothers Crittenden were from Ohio, both generals. One North and one south. Many people in Union states were divided over the war. In Illinois, even though considered Lincoln's turf, this divide held true. My family seems to have been all unionists but even still, my father grew up there hearing [and generally agreeing with] a commonly held view about blacks: "The Northerner loves the race but hates the man. The Southerner hates the race but loves the man." Southern pride, to the extent that it was sincere and steeped in an honor code may have been the last vestige of a social order based on Christian chivalry. As such, it may have been doomed from the get-go in dealing with an enemy composed of utilitarians for whom the ends justified the means. For people like Lee and so many others like him, it was better to lose the war than tarnish not only your own character, but that of the people you felt a kinship towards. While not perfect or utopian, this was Southern culture and to the extent that it succeeded in bonding a people together, it instilled a common sense of pride in those that attempted to live it out. This, in part explains why, to the exasperation of the "we won, get over it" crowd, it just will not die. As a rebuke to Yankee woke supremacy, I say, ride on Dixie, ride on. SW