Ditto. Never heard it before "The Patriot". With iron sights you aim where you aim, there's not large or small to it, but you still have to pick a spot on a neutral background (that is, a large expanse of unmarked deer hair). With something like a traditional bow or shotgun you have to focus on a spot. I try to visualize a dime sized spot on the target butt or deer's side where I want to hit.
In archery, you don't aim for the gold. You aim for the center of the gold. Same principle, I guess. Not sure Hollywood ever showed us much usefull shooting tips before: hold your pistol sideways so the ejected rounds are more likely to "stovepipe" jamb and you can't see the sights, hold the rifle at your hip, blast away with 37 shots from a six shot revolver, etc.
Don't lose sleep over "aim small, miss small."